tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7169024189529875414.post3853615072586248725..comments2023-03-27T12:37:21.845-07:00Comments on counterpoised: On schlooping...Lhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01020762171401291148noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7169024189529875414.post-37149015800035584672009-11-13T04:05:43.166-08:002009-11-13T04:05:43.166-08:00Could you please footnote an etymological explanat...Could you please footnote an etymological explanation of the term "shlooping"<br /><br />I wonder who they are...Pushkinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7169024189529875414.post-74396773935783754982009-11-11T10:36:15.479-08:002009-11-11T10:36:15.479-08:00Oh*
*And thanks for noticing.Oh* <br /><br />*And thanks for noticing.Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020762171401291148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7169024189529875414.post-71321986740374041672009-11-11T10:35:42.189-08:002009-11-11T10:35:42.189-08:00Chris: you are neither schlooper or schloopette. T...Chris: you are neither schlooper or schloopette. This is because you're too young to be a schlooper, and you're too genuine and legitimately cool to be a schloopette. What defines the schloopette is the self-conscious hyper-manicuring of the self as it is presented to the outer world. <br /><br />Scloopers need the schloopettes to complete themselves, as they feel somehow inadequate. They may choose one or more schloopettes, which to them helps ease their perception of their own inadequacies, though the absurdism of the situation only highlights those inadequacies for people like me. <br /><br />You aren't that. <br /><br />Eliz:<br />I'm bitter too.<br />And--I really think that both parties involved are self-deluding AND deluding others (each is using the other to a very real end). I contend that it is a symbiotic relationship (but also that it's still pretty destructive).<br /><br />The big no-no is a polyschlooperous relationship, where the schloopette doesn't know to what extent she's being used. And the real reason why he can't hang out that weekend/night/whatever. <br /><br />So I guess I'm making a distinction here that is important: <br />2 crimes: <br />1) Schlooping<br />--> Result: Disappointment, disgust, annoyance, general mutually "beneficial" delusion<br /><br />2) Sleeping with multiple partners without telling them first<br />--> Result: All of the above + Pain, Disease, bitterness, dispair, purposeful delusion of others by lies of omission. <br /><br />I guess I had to talk about them at the same time because there was some overlap involved, but then my clarity (...if you can call it clarity...) suffered.Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020762171401291148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7169024189529875414.post-79271160756981922642009-11-10T13:59:14.401-08:002009-11-10T13:59:14.401-08:00Bitterness seems right. In my experience (both as ...Bitterness seems right. In my experience (both as schlooper and schoopette) both parties are aware of the schooping at hand. In many cases, schlooping beats lonliness. (real relationships)* are much harder to find than a good lay, and sometimes, thats all you are looking for in the first place.<br /><br />*Sorry, I couldn't figure out how to type quotation marks on a german keyboard.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15928897235374411150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7169024189529875414.post-30382765236801424142009-11-10T08:33:22.077-08:002009-11-10T08:33:22.077-08:00*Crumb's not different.
(Wow! A post with fo...*Crumb's not different.<br /><br />(Wow! A post with footnotes! Takin' it to a new level, girl.)<br /><br />In my all-too-vast experience with such things, the women don't usually know they're being schlooped. They're self-deluding at worst, which is (to me) more forgivable than the deluding of others by lies of omission (like neglecting to tell a girl that you're screwing another girl too).<br /><br />Bitter? No, I'm not bitter. Why do you ask?Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11889294120616809157noreply@blogger.com